MORE CONFESSIONS OF A TWITTER GIRL

18 May

This week my Twitter numbers are pushing 1,800 and at this rate I’ll probably be at 5,000 easy at the end of my first year next March. After my few months on Twitter I still run into people who say they have an account but never post. When I ask why the usual response is ‘I don’t know what to say’. It’s a party atmosphere and when you first dive in it’s easy to feel a bit lost. 

I’ve said this before but it bears repeating, when I first started on Twitter I DIDN’T post, I retweeted. Mostly because I didn’t know what to say either so I just watched the stream of people go by, hoping for someone I’d recognize. That didn’t happen, but what did happen was I laughed at a tweet so I retweeted. That gave me confidence so I kept reading posts and RTing whenever something caught my eye. Pretty soon, I started recognizing people I’d RT’d, and that’s how you get to know the people at the party. 

Just so we’re clear here, I retweeted for over a week (probably closer to two weeks) before I finally tweeted something of my own. A friend had a new book out and asked for help so that forced me to dip my toe into the stream of tweets and it was easy. Meanwhile I kept RTing since I was comfortable with that and it was fun. Slowly, I put out more tweets for other friend’s books and people I’d RT’d did the same for my friends books. 

Up to this point, I’d been on a few weeks and only posted a few tweets, still mostly RTing tweets that caught my eye. I was also learning, what worked and what didn’t work. The tweets that caught my eye either made me laugh, or go awwwwwww, or were fabulous log lines like you’d see on a book cover or a movie poster. I realized that the way I was tweeting my friends books wasn’t the same. So I started playing with doing one-liner blurbs that gave a hint of the book but were teasers too. The better the blurb the better the response. 

At this point I slowly started replying to tweets. Like the first tweets I made, I was cautious at first, but soon got into the swing of tweeting short quips. 

Over a month after I started on Twitter I clicked on the CONNECTIONS button and discovered I could see EVERYTHING that people had tweeted to me, even the ones that had flown by while I was off. I had no idea up to that point that it was possible to do that! This is key for all you shy people out there to understand, because if I can do everything wrong and still have an awesome experience then you have no fears. It just isn’t possible for you to do this any more backwards than I did. 

The beauty of CONNECTIONS is that you can reply to tweets you never saw when they were first posted. It’s awesome. 

Twitter is a party, but the purpose of the party is communication. Don’t get caught up in thinking you have to be witty, sparkling, or impressive.  Relax and be yourself, that’s what people respond to when they read your tweets. Remember it’s a party, you’re supposed to have fun, so go out and get your tweet on.    

Love much, laugh often, live well,

Swan Mama signing off

 

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Busy Thursday–with Prizes!!

17 May

Hey All

Today is a Blitz Day for Lyrical Press and I’m super thrilled to be one of the blitzing authors. Check out the blogs below and make sure to say hi and leave your email because each blog has 2 prizes to give away (Unraveling Midnight by Yours Truly and backlist choice of the fabulous Annie Nicholas).

 

 

 

 

Jagged Edge Reviews

Jess Resides Here

Book & Movie Dimension

Spellbound by Books

A Daydreamer’s Thoughts

All the best!

Gnome Mama

aka

Stephanie Beck

 

 

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PLEASE GIVE A WARM WELCOME TO ROBIN KRAMME!

16 May

Hi Everyone! I’m so excited to have a friend and Desert Rose Member, Robin Kramme, visit us here at Plot Mamas. Robin is a fellow writer and awesome –sometimes- critique partner. Please welcome her.

 Hi Robin, welcome to Plot Mamas. 

Donna, thank you for that nice intro and thanks so much for inviting me to be a part of Plot Mamas today. 

 

How long have you been writing?

Like so many writers, I’ve been at it in some ways ever since I could hold a crayon.  But, I’ve been actively involved with creative writing as a serious hobby and in some ways a next career for 5 years.  After I retired from a 30-year paycheck career in the hotel industry, it was almost like my brain reconfigured itself.  I stopped traveling every week for my job and opened myself up to my own ideas instead of battling work’s daily demands and “emergencies”.

 

I hope that I’m right when I say that you write different kinds of novels, novellas and short stories.  What is your favorite genre?

I am primarily drawn to contemporary fiction with strong romantic elements, but I also like paranormal as well as suspense.

 

Even though you’re officially retired from the hotel industry, do you think that experience helped you with your writing?

Definitely and in a variety of ways.  Hotels are fascinating places and are filled with lots of people.  I can draw on all kinds of interactions for character and plot ideas.  Later in my career, I had far ranging regional responsibilities and often had to self-direct my time and efforts (I was a home office employee for many years with my co-workers, bosses and the corporate office hundreds of miles away).  I think that experience helps me organize my time and prepared me to work independently.  I was also responsible for goal setting for myself and others which is a good skill for a writer.  Finally, in business writing, grammar and punctuation do count; so, I’m a pretty good proof reader!

 

Robin, in addition to writing fiction, you also have recently become a playwright – how did that come about?

I love that question because so many things aligned for this to happen.  I successfully pitched at the 2010 Desert Dreams Writers’ Conference.  Months and months later, I received a rejection from the editor who requested my manuscript.  The rejection was mostly a form letter but she did add that she didn’t care for my dialogue.  (My critique group really liked my dialogue!)  A few months later, I attended an afternoon of short plays with another writer pal of mine.  She had entered a playwriting contest and one of her plays was featured.  Honestly, I didn’t even know there was such a thing as a 10-minute play, but there is.   Late last year, my husband and I went on a transatlantic cruise.  After a few days at sea I noticed some people wearing the same gift shop track suits all-day, every day.  Their luggage never made it on board the ship.  When I got home, I sat down and wrote a short play about lost luggage told from the luggage’s point of view and sent it in to the contest my friend had entered.  This year both my writing pal and I have 10-minute plays that are being produced!

 Can you tell me how writing a play differs from writing a novel?

It is almost completely dialogue driven which is part of the reason I decided to tackle it, to practice writing dialogue.  In this case, it is also very short, like writing an essay or flash fiction.  Though I am now working on a slightly longer one-act play (20 – 40 minutes).  I also had to do some on-line research as the format is unique.

 

I find that, especially when I write a sex scene, I feel more like a movie director than a writer. All the movements, the “props,” the lighting…everything in the scene has to make sense. You have to account for the pair of jeans on the floor or the arm that somehow ended up on the small of the heroine’s back. How has writing plays helped you to write better scenes in you novels?

It sounds like we are both very visual writers.  I think the exercise has made me more dialogue sensitive.  I worked hard to make sure each of my four characters in my play had distinct voices.  Now that I’ve heard them “talk”, I know it worked.  Play writing also helped me write more tightly.  You have to be clear but economical with your words.

 Do you find that writing plays has helped you get more emotion out of your characters?

I think it has definitely made me dig deeper into how they express their emotions.  Of course now the director and actors get to add layers onto what I’ve written and make their own interpretations.  I think a live performance is a terrific reminder of how words, actions, facial expressions and body language all work together to express character emotion.

 I’d like to move on to the most exciting part of the interview – your short play, Bad Travel, is going to be presented at The Pandora Festival on May 18th - will you tell the readers a little about the 2012 Festival?

The Arizona Women’s Theatre Company is now in its 6th year of presenting plays by women playwrights.  You just have to live in Arizona and submit your previously unproduced play by the January 31st deadline to enter their contest.  If you are selected, a director is assigned to your play and it becomes part of a weekend long Festival of new works.  Short plays, one-act plays and full length plays are the 3 categories for the contest.  All plays are read by three judges.  This year 16 plays were selected for production  (It was really interesting to get the judges comments back and reading their notes.)  I got to attend auditions and rehearsals.  It has been really interesting.

 Tickets for this year’s Pandora Festival being held at the Scottsdale Center for the Performing Arts, Stage Two are on sale now. 

( If you’re planning on attending, Tickets to each event are $12. For more information visit www.azwtc.org.  )

Robin, it’s been nice riding alongside you during your writing journey. I remember when you told me you submitted your play and I remember when you e-mailed me that Bad Travel had been selected. I’m positive I couldn’t have been as thrilled as you were when you received the news… But I tried. I’m excited for you…  I’ll see you on Friday at 7:00 in Scottsdale!

 

Congratulations and break a leg!

 

Donna, thank you so much.  It is so important to have a community of writers on this journey.  I never would have predicted being part of this upcoming event, but I am so happy the long and winding road of my writing has taken this turn.    It is part of the magic, joy and insanity of writing that you never know what’s next!!  See you at the theater.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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STILL MORE CONFESSIONS OF A TWITTER GIRL

11 May

It’s been 7 weeks since I started on Twitter. I have 1,600 some odd followers. Still a small number but not a newbie any more. Twitter is a whole lot of fun. People are nice, generous, and there is a sense of community to the party. Do I know all that there’s to know about Twitter? The opposite. I’ve figured out many things by watching what others are doing, but there are still lots of things I don’t know. 

One great advantage to Twitter as a writer is it’s easy to see what works and what doesn’t work to catch attention. Of course it varies, what catches my attention and what catches others attention are likely different. I’ll retweet whatever catches my eye and I’ve learned how to make a catchy log line that will get attention. How do I know? I try to write something I’d retweet. The ones that get lots of RTs are successes, but timing can be tricky too so try posting at different times and see if you get better responses at varying times. 

When I first came to the party in late March I was home on spring break from school. I could get on at lots of different times and met a lot of people. When I went back to school I noticed that there’s a lot of those people that I hardly see because I now post in the early morning and the late afternoon. One way you can keep up with Twitter friends who aren’t on when you are is to visit their Twitter page and check out their latest tweets. You can then reply or RT as you want. Twitter lets you search so use that to help you out. 

There are lots of Twitter programs too like HooteSuite and Tweetdeck. I don’t have those so I can’t speak to them except to say I have friends who use them and really like them. I like tweeting the old fashioned way, one tweet at a time, but that probably says more about my dislike of learning new programs than anything else. I’m still keeping possibility on a back burner. Right now, I’m really enjoying the party. I love to see the friendly, giving and just plain fun attitude that’s at the party. Whether your there for business or there for pleasure it’s always entertaining. So go out there and get your tweet on! 

Love much, laugh often, live well,

Swan Mama signing off

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Human=Reason to be awesome.

10 May

Lately, I’ve heard a lot of people dropping the ‘we’re all human’ excuse for bad behavior, and I’m not buying it.

We are all human, absolutely, which leads to none of us being perfect. In instances where you accidentally grab the wrong coffee or mix little things with no intent on malice or greed, humanity is showing.

However, when a person makes the decision to say a rotten thing or they do something selfish and cruel, that’s not being human. Nope. That’s being a jackass (no offence to mules intended). I don’t expect perfection in another person, but it’s not too much to expect professionalism, kindness and respect in all situations, from all age groups and from all cultures.

Bad days happen, bad moods happen–but only in extreme and detailed situations can a person really not be held accountable for their actions. If everyone used ‘being human’ as an excuse to act badly, how sucky would it be just to take a walk down your street?

So, instead of using our humanness as an excuse, why not use it as a reason to be awesome? Our humanity not only makes us imperfect, it gives us the ability to cover another person’s life in sweetness.

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We’re not perfect–not a single one of us–which gives every single one of us a way to help another person. How fantastic is that? We’re literally built to help each other and fill in the cracks in each other.

Instead of telling our kids that nobody is perfect, why not teach them to apologize and do better when they let their human nature lead them into bad decisions that hurt feelings? Assuming that because everyone makes mistakes that appologies and respect are unnecissary is a very good way to ruin relationships and make life pretty crummy.

So, go ahead and be human. Be human all day long (I’ll be human my whole life–I dig it so much). But make that humanity something special. Treat it like a gift and treat other people’s humanity like a gift. Because it is. You only get to be human as long as you’re alive–make sure you’re making it the best you can.

 

All The Best,

Stephanie Beck

aka Gnome Mama

www.stephaniebeck.net

MORE ACCOLADES FOR DESERT DREAMS 2012!!!!!!

9 May

Hello Everyone!  For all you writers out there who might have heard this all last week, I’d like to give one more shout out to Desert Rose RWA. The weekend of April 27-29th I attended the Desert Dreams Writer’s Conference in Scottsdale. I love the biennial conference because it gives me the chance to meet new people, re-connect with old friends and get some great advice from people who have been in this business a lot longer than me. I have a blast and I learn so much! I have to say that I always walk away a little wiser than I had been going in. This year, I came out a lot wiser. I took advantage of nine workshops and I learned something from all of them. For me, each workshop built on lessons I learned the hour before. As it turned out, I needed to hear every word. 

 

But the conference wasn’t about workshops alone. There were dinners and a Saturday Luncheon and lots of downtime to talk. On Friday night, a friend invited me to spend time with some of her friends. I met her agent. As we relaxed, she asked me, very casually…. “What is your book about?” I hadn’t been expecting that question. So in my typical fashion, I stumbled through an answer. – For a minute or two- But after my temporary insanity left me and my courage returned, I calmly gave her my pitch.  …And… She didn’t like it.  But, it turned out to be a blessing. Along with some positive comments, I received great feedback as to the reasons my manuscript needed to be overhauled and ideas on how to fix it. When I walked away from the group a little later, I didn’t feel like an author who got “shot down.” I felt like in a few short minutes, I’d been given very valuable advice.

 

The next day, I thought about everything I’d learned in those few minutes. I let the agent’s words tumble around in my head as workshop after workshop, I went through my day. I’d already been kicking around the idea to make some changes to my manuscript but I hadn’t been quite sure how to approach them. But by Sunday afternoon, after all the workshops and discussions with other writers, I began to see my story in a brand new light. In fact, I changed almost everything!

 

When I came home, I began to work. I kicked the wimpy characters and mundane storyline to the curb and added new excitement and conflicts. I moved the location across the country to a place more suited to the story and I drilled my characters to get to the heart of the story. And when I finally stepped back between my real job and my writing, it was Thursday morning.

My WIP is growing and continues to run through my mind. And i can safely say I think it’s going to be much better becuase of the three days I spend with writers in Scottsdale.

 

For me, Desert Dreams 2012 was a huge success! I’d like to take the time to thank all of the authors, editors and agents who took their time to teach all of us a little more about writing. And to the countless individuals who worked behind the scenes, thank you for all your hard work.

 

See you in 2014!

 Until Next Week,

 Blazen Mama

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